To give you an idea of how I feel about spanking and what I think is important, I’ll tell something about my view on spanking on this page. Mind you, this is my personal view and as such not something that everyone will fully agree with. You may even disagree completely. If that is the case, then we are not compatible in terms of view. It may also be that you completely agree with me after reading. Then maybe we should talk!
What spanking isn’t
To clarify what spanking is for me and what I think about it, it might be a good idea to briefly explain what it isn’t, for me in any case.
- It is not a solution for serious problems.
If someone seriously suffers from behavioral problems or addiction, you will not solve that by giving that person a spanking. Such a person needs professional help that I cannot provide. I’m not a therapist.
- Spanking is not serious.
No matter how hard you play or how serious you play, spanking is always a game for me, something that you play as adults. You can go far, but in the end you both play a role and it is important not to lose sight of that.
My view on spanking
That’s what spanking isn’t so what is it to me? Well, below I will tell you my view on spanking.
For me, spanking is always respectful. I am not in favor of humiliation or swearing. For me, someone is never stupid, worthless, a slut or terms like that. If you are looking for that, then you should not come to me. My partner is a person of flesh and blood, someone with feelings and as such, that person deserves respect. And that is how I will treat that person. This also means that you must honor mutual agreements, be on time for appointments or let them know in time if you can’t make it.
Discretion is of great importance to me and is closely related to respect. I offer my partners 100% discretion. No one will ever hear from me that you have visited my site, that you have emailed me or that you have had a spanking from me. As far as I’m concerned, that’s nobody else’s business. I also expect discretion from my partners.
In my vision, spanking is always safe. Both in terms of how I play and in terms of respecting boundaries. I play with safe and clean instruments and nothing will happen to you that you did not agree with. In fact, even if you change your mind on the spot, that is your right. After all, it’s your body.
As far as you can have fun while you’re getting your bottom spanked, of course! But let’s be honest: in the end, people do spanking because they like it somehow. As far as I’m concerned there is almost always time for a joke or to try out that one instrument. Life is hard enough so let’s have fun during a fantasy game!
Spanking is also thrilling, in my vision. Thrilling because you do not know exactly what to expect, thrilling because you (voluntarily) relinquish control, thrilling because you will most likely get your bare buttocks smacked and that hurts. Also thrilling because spanking is erotic. As far as I’m concerned, it is never boring, because if it is you are doing it wrong!
Want to experience it for yourself?
Do you recognize yourself in the above view? Does it sound good to you and would you like to experience something like this yourself? That’s possible! Check this page and get in touch with me and who knows…