Unnatural

I’ve heard it said that it’s unnatural to enjoy spanking or being spanked. That’s because, the person with the objection sagely adds, “it’s natural to want to avoid pain because pain is a warning sign“. A desire to inflict pain is “sick” because no person in his right mind would enjoy seeing someone in pain. So is spanking truly unnatural?

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Self-discipline

Self-discipline is one of the hardest qualities to maintain for many people. No matter how well-intentioned they are and how enthusiastically they begin with something, eventually they lose motivation. Be it weight loss, quitting smoking or writing a thesis, after a while everyone gets stuck in a rut and it becomes increasingly difficult to motivate yourself.

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Happy New Year

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year to all visitors, contacts, people I have played with and everyone else out there! May 2019 bring you all the best and lots of luscious red bottoms!

How to give a spanking

One of my goals with this new site is to educate people about spanking. While my old Tumblr blog was more dedicated to lovely spanking pictures, I want to change my focus here. There’s still a lot of bad information on spanking and related activities and if I can help rectify that in a small way, I will have achieved my goal.

Today, I added a page that brings that goal a small step closer. The page “How to give a spanking” gives beginners some information on how to get started with spanking. As always, feedback and constructive criticism is welcome!

If you’d like to know more about how to give a spanking, you should definitely have a look.

Coming along

It’s been only a few weeks since I claimed the domain billenkoek.info with the intention of starting a new website dedicated to consensual spanking between adults. Despite a busy schedule, the site is coming along, slowly taking shape. I wish I had more time to dedicate to adding content but with the holidays approaching fast, it doesn’t look like I’ll have a lot of time to do that. Still, I’ve have some positive feedback so that is encouraging.

Check back often because I add or change something almost daily!

New stuff

I have added some new stuff during the week. Or rather, it’s old stuff from Tumblr that’s been given a second and hopefully more welcome life here. What have I done?

Spanking and safety.

I’ve added new pages with important safety information for meeting with strangers. Sensible, straightforward stuff to keep you safe. I have also explained how to set up a safety call.

Games

On a much less serious note, I’ve added a new section containing spanking related games, punishment generators, etc. Spanking isn’t just punishment, it’s fun and I hope this will bring you hours of pleasure…and sore bottoms.

As always, feel free to explore the new stuff. Comments and feedback are greatly appreciated!