Unnatural

I’ve heard it said that it’s unnatural to enjoy spanking or being spanked. That’s because, the person with the objection sagely adds, “it’s natural to want to avoid pain because pain is a warning sign“. A desire to inflict pain is “sick” because no person in his right mind would enjoy seeing someone in pain. So is spanking truly unnatural?

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Self-discipline

Self-discipline is one of the hardest qualities to maintain for many people. No matter how well-intentioned they are and how enthusiastically they begin with something, eventually they lose motivation. Be it weight loss, quitting smoking or writing a thesis, after a while everyone gets stuck in a rut and it becomes increasingly difficult to motivate yourself.

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How to give a spanking

One of my goals with this new site is to educate people about spanking. While my old Tumblr blog was more dedicated to lovely spanking pictures, I want to change my focus here. There’s still a lot of bad information on spanking and related activities and if I can help rectify that in a small way, I will have achieved my goal.

Today, I added a page that brings that goal a small step closer. The page “How to give a spanking” gives beginners some information on how to get started with spanking. As always, feedback and constructive criticism is welcome!

If you’d like to know more about how to give a spanking, you should definitely have a look.

New stuff

I have added some new stuff during the week. Or rather, it’s old stuff from Tumblr that’s been given a second and hopefully more welcome life here. What have I done?

Spanking and safety.

I’ve added new pages with important safety information for meeting with strangers. Sensible, straightforward stuff to keep you safe. I have also explained how to set up a safety call.

Games

On a much less serious note, I’ve added a new section containing spanking related games, punishment generators, etc. Spanking isn’t just punishment, it’s fun and I hope this will bring you hours of pleasure…and sore bottoms.

As always, feel free to explore the new stuff. Comments and feedback are greatly appreciated!

Saint Nicholas’ Eve

It’s almost time for Saint Nicholas’ Eve here in the Netherlands. Nowadays, it’s all about kids getting presents. Those were part of the celebration in earlier times as well but the celebration used to have a darker aspect. The saint was kind to well behaved children but children who had been naughty were put into a bag and taken back to Spain, or so the stories went. What happened to them there…?

Image of the birch
The birch

As a child, I was fascinated much more by the birch rod that Piet, Saint Nicholas’ helper, carried. Naughty children would find that in their shoe instead of presents and they got spanked with it. I don’t condone that practice when actual children are concerned. I hope though that this Saint Nicholas’ Eve a number of adult “naughty girls” get the birch and their just desserts! Happy Saint Nicholas’ Eve!

Have you ever been spanked by the birch? Please tell us about it in the comments below!

Started a new site

Since 2011 I have been blogging on Tumblr. I run the blog “Bad girls need good spankings” there, mainly a blog dealing with spanking related photos and videos. Tumblr has been getting increasingly unfriendly to adult blogs, hiding them from search results and visitors without a Tumblr account. It also doesn’t show a lot of material on my blog when viewed in Tumblr mobile client.

While spanking photos and videos are of course nice to look at, I have always had a desire to educate about spanking as well. That’s why I created this new site, which will be focused much more on education. A few pictures will no doubt be there as well.